Saturday, 05 December 2009

• How to tell if you are being used.

    
  
  Here is my issue: I used to be "talking" to this older guy named Ryan. Long story short, he ended things with me because he didn't want a relationship. We recently began talking again, and have been keeping in touch and hanging out for the past 3ish months. I honestly have no sexual attraction to him, even though he is considered attractive. I blew him off all of the time and would ignore him when he tried to see me.
  
  My friend convinced me to be nice to him, saying he was a genuine guy. I always knew he wasn't, so I decided to prove it to her. Ryan and I had been texting, and he started to talk in a sexual and flirty manner. For once, I went along with it. He asked me to come to his house the next day, and continued to say that he didn't want to cuddle under the blankets alone. I begged for us to go out and see a movie instead, because I had been dying to see 2012. He was very reluctant to agree to my offer. I asked why he didn't want to go out, and he said we would "have more fun at his house."
  
  Finally, i planted the news on him. I told him that I would come over, but i wouldn't do anything sexual with him. He responded with the dreaded one word answer, "oh." I asked if he still wanted to hangout, and he said "we'll see." And he has not texted me since this conversation 4 days prior to this post.
  
  Long story short, I would have done sexual acts with him, but I wanted to see if he was still the same asshole he always way. And he is. If he played his cards right, I would have no problem with just a hook up...even though I am not sexually attracted to him.
  
  How do you know if you're being used? Would you go to someone's house knowing you would get used?
  
  

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